Finding Momentum: From tree-Climbing to Stability – A Journey Through the ”Now-Verse”
We frequently enough talk about chasing goals, but what if the real power lies in embracing the present moment? I call it the now-verse – a universe of limitless potential contained within “right now.” It’s a space where you can actively shape your experience, whether that’s learning a new skill or simply losing yourself in a captivating puzzle.
This isn’t about ignoring future aspirations. It’s about recognizing that consistent, mindful action in the present is the engine of progress. And surprisingly, sometimes that action looks a lot like play.
The power of Play & The Illusion of Productivity
For a long time, I prioritized a structured schedule, believing it was the key to momentum. And it is, to a degree. Though, I quickly learned the importance of carving out dedicated time for pure, unadulterated play. Climbing trees, singing, puzzling – these weren’t distractions, but essential fuel for my creativity and well-being.
I’m increasingly convinced that while work is necessary,our essential connection to joy is what truly sustains us. It’s a delicate balance, but one worth striving for.
A Search for Connection & The Pitfalls of Self-Presentation
I once envisioned a series of viral videos: me, singing and climbing trees. A perfect expression of my love for nature, art, and self, right? The reality was…more elaborate.
Finding someone to share the experience with proved difficult, leading to awkward selfies and a DIY aesthetic that, frankly, felt a little off. It highlighted a crucial lesson: authenticity is paramount.Trying to appear a certain way, especially when it feels forced, can be counterproductive.
This pursuit of a curated image coincided with a period of on-and-off homelessness spanning two years. Looking back, I began to wonder if these seemingly disparate experiences – playful exploration and housing instability – were connected.Were my singing, jumping, and tree-climbing a way to occupy my time instead of actively seeking stability?
And, to be honest, there was another factor: substance use. It was a coping mechanism that ultimately hindered my progress.
From Treetops to the Workforce: A Shift in Focus
My time in Philadelphia, living in a converted pre-Depression convent, was a pivotal moment. Despite the challenges, I found a surprising amount of joy. I climbed a particular tree there - I call it the “Tree of Amazingness” – and it became a symbol of my resilience.(You can see it here: https://maps.app.goo.gl/KdVuJG5ZkRgNWkjM9).
Philly taught me the power of gratitude, even in the midst of hardship. it was a time of self-finding, and a reminder that even when we feel lost, we’re capable of finding beauty and meaning.
Today, I’m working 40+ hours a week, and building a more stable life. This transformation wasn’t accidental. It required consistent effort, a willingness to ask for help, and a shift in priorities. The “nitty-gritty” of labor is what ultimately paved the way for stability.
Key Takeaways for Building Momentum:
* Embrace the Now-Verse: Focus on what you can do today to move closer to your goals.
* Prioritize Play: Don’t underestimate the power of joyful activities to recharge your creativity and well-being.
* Authenticity Matters: Be true to yourself, and avoid trying to project an image that doesn’t feel genuine.
* Seek Support: Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it.
* Practice Gratitude: Focusing on what you have can be a powerful antidote to negativity and despair.
The Power of Human Connection
As Anne Frank so eloquently wrote, “I still believe that people are really good at heart.” Recognizing the inherent goodness in others, and the love that surrounds us, is perhaps the greatest reason to give thanks.
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