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Bastien Lambert stands out as a uniquely insightful and sensitive radio documentarian.
HeS widely recognized for his work with France Culture, including Retour à la Hague, a deep exploration of perceptions surrounding nuclear risk in the Cotentin Peninsula, and Carte postale de Centuri, a project that beautifully revived and extended the legacy of the late Yann Paranthoën, a truly remarkable radio creator.
Recently, Lambert completed a compelling standalone piece for “Le Labo,” the program of radio-Télévision suisse (RTS), marking the end of its thirteen-year run.
The work begins with a strikingly personal statement: “Je mesure un mètre quarante-trois, je mets encore du 12 ans alors que j’en ai 40.” (I measure one meter forty-three,I still wear size 12 even though I am 40).
Navigating Perception and Parenthood
Accustomed to being observed, Lambert decided to confront his own history by revisiting his medical records and seeking perspectives from those closest to him as he contemplates becoming a father.
his companion offered a candid observation, noting that reactions range from curiosity from children to, bluntly, “silliness” from adults.
The responses from his mother reveal lingering pain and uncertainty.
She shared, “J’ai compris que la vie ne serait plus pareille si j’avais un enfant handicapé. Faire un bel enfant, c’était important… C’était un peu une blessure narcissique. J’ai eu du mal à accepter les choses. A cause du regard des autres aussi. A tel point que j’évitais d’aller dans la rue. On s’est un peu battus pour gagner des centimètres.” (I understood that life would not be the same if I had a disabled child. Having a gorgeous child was important… It was a bit of a narcissistic wound. I had a hard time accepting things. Because of the gaze of others too. To the point that I avoided going out. We fought a little to gain centimeters).
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