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Reporter Zhang Yazhu/Reporting from Changhua
▲On the left of the picture is the 96-year-old great-grandmother, and on the right is the 70-year-old grandma. Now the two of them plus their grandson-in-law and great-granddaughter are the only ones left in the family. (Photo/photographed by reporter Zhang Yazhu)
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In the simple house, four generations lived together: a 96-year-old great-grandmother, a 70-year-old grandma, a 38-year-old granddaughter-in-law, and a 16-year-old great-granddaughter. As for the men in the family, they suffered accidents or died of illness one after another inexplicably. The eldest son of a 70-year-old grandma died suddenly this time. She said that her son had epilepsy after a car accident and suddenly became a cold corpse on April 23. It was so heart-breaking for the white-haired man to send the black-haired man away. The two elders interviewed kept choking up and even lamented that fate had played a trick on them and they were too embarrassed for outsiders to come to help. Chen Yongcong, the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group, has shown concern many times, and warm-hearted and kind-hearted people have donated 90,000 yuan, hoping to help them handle their funeral arrangements.
“It’s really embarrassing and shameful to say it. Alas, this kind of thing is really…” The 96-year-old great-grandmother A Tao (pseudonym) and her 70-year-old daughter-in-law A Zeng (pseudonym) frequently said when interviewed He said that this was really a family scandal and I was really embarrassed to share it with everyone. However, Chen Yongcong, the owner of Shunxing Automobile in Changhua County who has cared for them many times, is enthusiastic about public welfare and is also the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group. He told reporters that Grandma A Zeng’s second son passed away about two years ago, and he heard about their family. The financial situation was not good, so I personally visited and asked if I needed help. I also raised some funeral expenses with several kind-hearted people and wanted to donate them to them. Unexpectedly, my daughter-in-law, who works at a betel nut stall, was very ambitious. She not only declined the help but also relied on her own money. She worked hard to take care of her husband’s funeral affairs, and did not even abandon her children and leave home because of her husband’s death. Instead, she worked hard to make money and raise her daughter. She is now 16 years old and studying in the third grade of junior high school.
▲The last male living in this family, the eldest son of 70-year-old Grandma Azeng (pseudonym), also unfortunately passed away suddenly at the end of last month. When they talked about the white-haired person giving away the black-haired person, the two were filled with grief. (Photo/photographed by reporter Zhang Yazhu)
Chen Yongcong said that he did not expect another tragedy to happen in the family in just two years. The last male in the family, the eldest son of Grandma A-Zeng, suddenly passed away at home. Great-grandmother A Tao choked up and said that her grandson had a really hard life. After a car accident a few years ago, he had several incisions on his brain, which caused him to have epileptic seizures from time to time. Later, no one dared to hire him when he wanted to find a job. On the day of his death, he was originally He was still alive and kicking, but suddenly he never stepped out of the room again. When he went in, he was completely stiff and breathless. “No matter how you scream, it’s useless. Come here, I don’t know why he passed away like this? It’s really terrible.” Sudden.”
Currently, there are no boys in the family, and the granddaughter-in-law’s salary is not much, so she has to support her daughter who is studying. Talking about this granddaughter-in-law, great-grandmother A Tao and grandma A-Zeng were very grateful and praised her for being very responsible and not caring about her husband’s departure. Just leave the child and run away. However, Grandma A-Zeng also said that she once told her daughter-in-law: “When your children grow up and can be self-sufficient, don’t treat yourself badly. Just go ahead and live your own life. We won’t blame you. After all, you are still young.” Mother A-Zeng said that her daughter-in-law is only 38 years old and still has a lot of youth. She does not want this place to become a shackles for her. Instead, she hopes that she can find a good partner and live a better life in the future.
Great-grandmother A Tao and grandma A-Zeng, who has a serious illness card, are unable to work and earn money at all. They almost live on subsidies, which add up to more than 10,000 yuan a month. I asked them if this is enough for them to live. Great-grandmother A Tao sighed and said, we are all getting older, and we don’t need to spend too much time on it. It’s enough to have food and shelter, and just save on flowers. In fact, we can still live. “We don’t need to eat. It’s so good, just don’t be too hungry or too cold. Although life is relatively difficult, I and my four sons are gone, and now these two grandchildren are also gone. It’s really sad. We only have four girls in this family. This will make you sad, but what can you do?”
▼▲Chan Yongcong, the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group in Changhua who is well-known for his enthusiasm for charity. Although he is the owner of a second-hand car dealer, whenever he encounters someone who needs help, no matter how far away, he personally visits and sends donations to help. For this He feels very sorry for what happened to his family, especially his 96-year-old great-grandmother A Tao (pseudonym). (Photo/photographed by reporter Zhang Yazhu)
The two declined donations from the society, saying that their current lives are decent. They also continued to thank Mr. Chen Yongcong, the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group, for coming to care for many times. They even donated 90,000 yuan to many kind-hearted people in times of need. They can handle the funeral affairs well. Although my great-grandmother A Tao was 96 years old, she took care of her daughter-in-law A Zeng like a daughter. She knew that she was in poor health and had many chronic diseases, and even fainted and was sent to the hospital many times. So she not only cooked for her, but also occasionally She would help others pick vegetables to earn some money to supplement the family income. A Zeng said with a wry smile that she and her mother-in-law have been together for 47 years, and their relationship and time together have long surpassed that of their original family. She is very grateful to her mother-in-law for her care and love.
Although they lamented that God was playing a joke on them by taking away their husband, son, and grandson, and they couldn’t help crying and choking during the visit, when their emotions calmed down, the two of them firmly said that they would not be defeated by fate. , the biggest hope now is, “Peace, good health, and living well, otherwise they will all be gone…all we have to do is be strong!” Let them in heaven not have to worry about it, and don’t become a burden to society. In this regard, Chen Yongcong, the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group, also encouraged and comforted them to be strong. If they really need help, don’t be polite. He has listed them on his care list and will continue to care for them in the future. I hope they can face it bravely and take good care of themselves. There is still warmth and hope in this society.
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