Ireland‘s Wafer Reflects on World Cup Heartbreak and the Path Forward
The recent Rugby World Cup journey ended in disappointment for ireland,falling short against France 18-13 in a hard-fought match at Sandy Park in Exeter. For Aoife Wafer, the experience was especially challenging, compounded by an incident that drew international attention. Now, she’s opening up about the emotional toll and her unwavering commitment to the game.
A Difficult loss and Immediate Return to work
it was a devastating result to process, and Wafer immediately channeled her energy into recovery. She returned to rehab straight away, explaining, “I hate taking breaks – I don’t do well with breaks.” This dedication speaks volumes about her character and drive.
She even found simple tasks overwhelming in the immediate aftermath. “I got home and I don’t think I left the house by myself because I went straight back into rehab,” she shared. “I was like ‘I’m just gonna get the shopping delivered to the house. I don’t want to go to the shop.'”
Facing the Aftermath of the Incident
The match was also marked by controversy, with France’s Axelle Berthoumieu receiving a 12-game ban – later reduced to nine – for biting Wafer during the game.While the incident understandably made headlines, both Wafer and coach Scott Bemand were resolute to avoid dwelling on it within the team.
Focus remained on moving forward. “You just have to keep playing rugby,” Wafer emphasized. “The game’s not going to stop and wait for us to keep complaining. If it’s not going to get checked, then it’s ‘What moment can we win next?'”
The Weight of Self-Reflection
Despite her resilience, Wafer admits to grappling with self-doubt. It’s a natural reaction for any athlete after a significant loss. She questioned whether she had done enough for the team, a feeling she suspects many of her teammates shared.
“There is that moment where you blame yourself,” she confessed. “It’s tough to take, and it’s probably one that will live with me for a very long time.” tho, she maintains a hopeful outlook, acknowledging the possibility of future world Cup opportunities.
A Lifelong dream Realized
Representing Ireland on the world stage was the fulfillment of a childhood dream for the Wexford native. She vividly recalls picking up a rugby ball and immediately declaring her intention to play for her country.
Interestingly, she didn’t even know a women’s team existed at age six. “I was like, ‘Okay, I wanna play for Ireland. I’ll just play for the men’s team,'” she recounted.
Fortunately, her parents were instrumental in supporting her ambition.they actively sought out opportunities for her to witness the Irish team in action, fostering her passion for the sport. They brought her to games in Ashbourne and anywhere else Ireland was playing, nurturing her dream.
Looking Ahead with Determination
Wafer’s story is one of dedication, resilience, and unwavering passion. While the recent World Cup experience was undoubtedly painful, it has only strengthened her resolve. She embodies the spirit of Irish rugby, and her commitment to continuous betterment is inspiring.
You can hear more from Aoife Wafer on RTÉ Radio One’s ‘Inside Sport,’ airing every weekday evening from 6-7pm.
