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It is such a sad and sad situation for a person with white hair to give away a person with black hair. In Changhua, there are four generations of a family, including a 96-year-old great-grandmother, a 70-year-old grandma, a 38-year-old granddaughter-in-law, and a 16-year-old great-granddaughter, all of whom are women. The men in the family died one after another, either due to accidents or illness. Even the 70-year-old grandma’s eldest son passed away on April 23 due to epilepsy after a car accident. After learning about this, Chen Yongcong, the head of the Shifang Merit Charity Group, contacted Shanxin. People donated NT$90,000, hoping to allow the family to properly handle the funeral arrangements.
The picture on the left shows the 96-year-old great-grandmother A Tao (pseudonym), and the picture on the right shows the 70-year-old Grandma A-Zeng (pseudonym). Grandma A-Zeng’s eldest son also unfortunately passed away suddenly at the end of last month. Talking about white-haired people giving black-haired people , the two of them were grieving endlessly. (Photo/Sanli News Network)
“Sanli News Network” reported that the 96-year-old great-grandmother A Tao (pseudonym) and her 70-year-old daughter-in-law A Zeng (pseudonym) frequently said that this was really a family scandal and they were really embarrassed to share it with everyone. It is understood that great-grandmother A Tao and her 70-year-old daughter-in-law A Zeng (pseudonym) Grandma A-Zeng, who has a critical illness card, is unable to work and earn money at all. She almost lives on subsidies, which adds up to more than 10,000 yuan a month. Great-grandmother A-Tao sighed and said, “We are all getting older. It’s better to say that it’s better not to use too much. It’s enough to have food and shelter. Just save money, you can still live.”
Grandma A-Zeng’s eldest son also passed away suddenly at the end of last month. When they talked about the white-haired person giving away the black-haired person, the two of them were filled with grief. (Photo/Sanli News Network)
She went on to say, “We don’t have to eat well, we just don’t get too hungry or too cold. Although life is relatively difficult, I and my four sons are gone, and now these two grandsons are also gone. It’s really sad. It’s sad to have four girls in this family, but what can we do?”
According to Chen Yongcong, the owner of Shun Hing Automobile in Changhua County, who is enthusiastic about public welfare and the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group, he said that about two years ago, Grandma Azeng’s second son passed away. He heard that their family’s financial situation was poor, so he personally visited I asked if I needed help, and I raised some funeral expenses with a few kind-hearted people to donate to them. Unexpectedly, my daughter-in-law, who works at a betel nut stall, was very ambitious. Instead of abandoning her children and leaving home because her husband was widowed, she worked hard to make money and raise her daughter up. She is now 16 years old and studying in the third grade of junior high school.
Chen Yongcong, the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group in Changhua, who is well-known for his charity work, feels very sorry for the family’s plight. (Photo/Sanli News Network)
Since the granddaughter-in-law’s salary was not much, she had to support her daughter who was studying. Talking about this granddaughter-in-law, great-grandmother A Tao and grandma A-Zeng were very grateful and praised her for being very responsible and not leaving the children and running away just because her husband left. Mother A-Zeng once told her daughter-in-law, “When your children grow up and can be self-sufficient, don’t treat yourself badly. Just go ahead and live your own life. We won’t blame you. After all, you are still young,” said Mother A-Zeng. My daughter-in-law is only 38 years old and still has a lot of youth. She does not want this place to become a shackles for her. Instead, she hopes that she can find a good partner and live a better life in the future.
Unexpectedly, another tragedy happened to the family in just two years. It turned out that the last male in the family, Grandma A-Zeng’s eldest son, suddenly passed away at home. Great-grandmother A-Tao choked up and said that this grandson’s life was really hard. After a car accident two years ago, he had several operations on his brain and suffered epileptic seizures from time to time. Therefore, no one dared to hire him. On the day of his death, he was still alive and kicking, but who knew that he suddenly never stepped out of the door again and went in to see the whole scene? The person was already stiff and breathless. “No matter how I screamed, it was useless. I couldn’t wake up. I don’t know why he passed away like this? It was really sudden.”
Although my great-grandmother A Tao was 96 years old, she took care of her daughter-in-law A Zeng like a daughter. She knew that she was in poor health and had many chronic diseases, and even fainted and was sent to the hospital many times. So she not only cooked for her, but also occasionally She would pick vegetables for others to earn some money to supplement the family. A Zeng said with a wry smile that she and her mother-in-law have been together for 47 years, and their relationship and time together have long surpassed that of their original family. She is very grateful to her mother-in-law for her care and love. Their son and grandson were taken away one after another, and they couldn’t help crying and choking during the interview. However, after their emotions calmed down, they firmly said that they would not be defeated by fate.
The two’s biggest hope is to “be safe, in good health, and live well, otherwise they will all be gone…all they have to do is be strong,” so that they don’t have to worry about it in heaven and don’t become a burden to society. In this regard, Chen Yongcong, the leader of the Ten Directions Charity Group, has come to care many times. He even donated 90,000 yuan to many well-wishers in this time of crisis, so that they could properly handle their funeral affairs, and encouraged and comforted them to be strong. If you really need help, don’t be polite. We have also listed them on the care list. We will continue to care about them in the future. I hope they can face it bravely and live a good life. There is still warmth and hope in this society.
